Baby shower gift ideas: for the baby and for mum

Short answer: A baby shower gift can be a practical item for the baby (muslins, sleepsuits in later sizes, a blanket) or something for the mum (soft pyjamas, a massage, a keepsake necklace). Check the wish list first and avoid cot bumpers and sleep positioners.

How much should you spend?

There is no rule. Many guests spend between £15 and £30, and a group of friends often pools money for one larger gift. Check whether the parents have a wish list first, so you don’t buy a duplicate.

For the baby

• Muslins and swaddle blankets

  You can never have enough. Pick plain or soft prints.

• Sleepsuits in a range of sizes

  Babies outgrow newborn size within weeks. Buy 0 to 3 months or 3 to 6 months.

  Gifts in later sizes are often the most useful.

• Bath time set

  Hooded towels, a bath thermometer and a fragrance-free wash.

• Board books

  Black and white books for the early weeks, then bright ones.

• A baby blanket or a keepsake

  A knitted blanket or a personalised one lasts for years.

For the mum, not the baby

The mum often gets least at a baby shower. These ideas make her feel looked after:

• Comfort and pampering

  Soft pyjamas, a robe, fragrance-free hand cream, a massage voucher.

• Hospital bag things

  A long phone charger cable, snacks, lip balm.

• A keepsake she will wear

  A pregnancy necklace is a lasting memory of the pregnancy, and it pairs well with a card from the group.

  Made to order, so order three to four weeks before the shower.

Group gifts

If several guests want to give together, choose one larger gift: a pram accessory the parents have asked for, a voucher for a baby shop, a massage for the mum, or a personalised necklace. Agree an amount, nominate one person to buy it, and sign one card.

What to skip

• Too many newborn-size outfits. They are worn for days.
• Cot bumpers, sleep positioners and loose soft toys for the cot. UK safer-sleep guidance advises against them, so many parents won’t use them.
• Big items nobody asked for. Cots, prams and car seats are personal choices.
• Anything with strong perfume. New parents are often sensitive to smells.

Boy or girl?

You don’t need to know. White, cream, sage and mustard work for any baby, and a gender-neutral gift won’t be wrong if the parents are keeping it a surprise.

What to write

Keep it short and warm. Our list of card messages for pregnancy and baby showers will help. For more ideas for the mum, see gifts for pregnant women.

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